Mediation Works.

A Different Path Forward, Separation and divorce are among life's most challenging experiences. The traditional adversarial court process can intensify conflict, drain finances, and leave families emotionally exhausted. There is another way.

As a family mediator, I provide a collaborative space where you and your former partner can work together to create solutions that truly work for your unique family. Rather than having a judge impose decisions, you maintain control over the outcomes that will shape your future and your children's lives.

Why Choose Mediation?

You stay in control: You and your partner make the decisions, not a stranger in a courtroom
Cost-effective: Mediation typically costs a fraction of what litigation expenses can reach
Faster resolution: Resolve issues in weeks or months, not years
Private and confidential: Your discussions remain between you, not part of public court records
Better for children: Cooperative parents create healthier outcomes for children
Preserves relationships: Build a foundation for effective co-parenting going forward
Flexible and creative solutions: Develop arrangements tailored to your family's specific needs

What I Can Help You Resolve

Through mediation, we can address all aspects of your separation or divorce:

Parenting arrangements (decision-making and parenting time)
Child support calculations and arrangements
Spousal support considerations
Division of property and assets
Division of debts and liabilities
Family home decisions
Any other family-related matters that need resolution

I believe that even in the midst of separation, most parents share common ground: they want what's best for their children, they want to be treated fairly, and they want to move forward with dignity. My role is to help you find that common ground and build from there.

My Approach

I approach mediation with:

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‍Impartiality: I don't take sides or advocate for either party
Respect: I honor each person's perspective and needs
Realism: I help you understand legal frameworks while exploring creative options
Thoroughness: I ensure all important issues are addressed carefully
Empathy: I recognize this is an emotionally difficult process

The Mediator vs. the Lawyer: Different Roles

One of the most common confusions about mediation is understanding how it relates to getting legal advice. Let's be crystal clear about the differences:

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Who they work for

ROLE

Lawyer

Mediator

Both parties equally (neutral)

Only you (your advocate)

What they Provide

Legal information and process facilitation

Legal advice specific to your situation

What they can tell you

"Courts typically approach this issue this way..."

"Given your specific circumstances, here's what I recommend..."

Can they advocate for you?

No - they remain neutral

Yes - that's their job

Can they tell you if an agreement is fair?

No - they can't give legal advice to either party

Yes - they assess agreements for their client

Can they represent you in court?

Yes

Is Mediation Right for You?

Mediation works best when both parties are willing to:

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Engage in good faith negotiations
Be honest about financial matters and other relevant information
Consider each other's perspectives
Work toward fair solutions

Mediation may not be appropriate in situations involving domestic violence, significant power imbalances, or where one party refuses to participate in good faith.
If you're unsure whether mediation is right for your situation, I'm happy to discuss your specific circumstances in a confidential consultation.

Estimating your Total Mediation Cost

The total cost depends on the complexity of your situation and how many sessions you need. Here are realistic estimates:

Situation type

characteristics

typical sessions

estimated total cost

Estimated cost per person (split)

Simple Case

Short Marriage, few assets, straightforward parenting, no spousal support

2 - 3 shorter sessions (5 - 10 hours)

$3,000 - $6,000 plus HST

$1,500 - $3,000 plus HST

Standard Case

Some property, standard parenting schedule, child support, possible spousal support, T4 income earning employment

2 - 4 sessions (10 - 16 hours)

$6,000 - $9,500 plus HST

$3,000 - $4,750 plus HST

Complex Case

Significant assets, complex financial structure, business interests, self employment and imputation of income, contested issues, complex parenting arrangements, expert assistance necessary

2 - 4 long sessions (16 - 32 hours)

$9,500 - $19,000 plus HST

$4,750 -$9,500 plus HST

Take the First Step

The journey through separation doesn't have to be a battle. With mediation, you can find a path that honors your family's dignity, protects your children's wellbeing, and preserves your financial resources for building your new future..

Contact me today to schedule a consultation and learn more about how mediation can help your family move forward.

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Mediation Briefing

Lawyers and Mediation: Understanding the Roles

Learn how lawyers and mediators work together in family mediation, when to involve a lawyer, and why independent legal advice is essential before signing agreements.

Mediation Costs

Transparent mediation costs and fee structures. Compare mediation vs. litigation expenses and understand your investment in better outcomes.

Mediation Process

What happens in mediation? Learn the stages from first consultation to signed agreement, typical timelines, and what to expect at each step.

Mediating Financial Matters

Navigate property division, debt allocation, and support through mediation. Fair financial settlements without the cost of litigation.

Parenting Mediation

Learn how family mediation works, how it differs from court, and whether it's right for your separation. Compare costs, timelines, and outcomes.

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